Should You Stay and Keep Trying or Say Goodbye?
Therapy for making tough relationship decisions in Ann Arbor and all across Michigan
Helping you with navigating relationship crossroads such as breakups and divorce
Are you discerning if it is possible to make your relationship better or if it’s time to move on?
You aren’t happy in your relationship now. Something needs to change. You keep trying to improve things with better communication, fun dates to have fun together and more intimacy. But, you end up having the same arguments over and over.
I can help you:
Improve your connection so you have an even better relationship than ever before
Communicate more respectfully with each other so you don’t keep having the same fights and feeling even more disconnected
Possibly discover that even though you love each other, this relationship has run it’s course and it may be best to go your separate ways.
Whether you choose to stay or choose to leave, I can help you navigate each choice with confidence and clarity so you remove the constant anxiety, doubt and second guessing.
HAVE YOU EVER THOUGHT YOU MAY BE HAPPIER SINGLE OR BETTER OFF WITH SOMEONE DIFFERENT?
You’re ready to move forward with clarity rather than be caught in constant limbo and uncertainty.
Feel Confident in Your Relationship Decisions
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Assess your compatibility to explore how you can improve your connection or if you would be better off going your separate ways.
The 4 Pillars of Compatibility helps you examine the specific areas where you and your partner are strongest. We can build on those strengths together. It also shows you where you could use some work on enhancing your compatibility.
I created the 4 Pillars of Compatibility to help my clients over the past 11 years to enhance their connection with each other so that they both feel loved and get their needs met.
Sometimes going through this exercise can be so eye opening that you may realize you aren’t that compatible for a romantic match. If that is the case, I can help you make the hard choice of saying goodbye if that is what you decide is best for you.
Regardless of what you uncover, I am here to help.
Therapy for making relationship decisions can help you say goodbye peacefully if that’s what is best for you…
Get out of the "Am I Settling?" Doubt: Shift from wondering “What if this is the best you can get and if you will end up alone forever?” to “You would rather choose temporary loneliness over the permanent disappointment of a relationship that isn’t right.”
Remove the Dreaded Regret: Move from “What if I didn't try hard enough?” to “I know exactly what my 100% effort looks like, I gave it my all, and I can walk away with absolute peace of mind.”
Choose Your Hard: Trade the paralyzing panic of “What if I make a massive mistake?” for the grounded reality that both staying and leaving could be hard, but only one offers you a better chance for growth and happiness. We can figure out which path is best for you!
Separate the Codependent "We" From the "Me": Sometimes we get too far into the “we” of a relationship that you may lose sight of what is best for you.
End the “Sunk Cost” Trap: Shift from “I've poured years into this. So, I can't just end it now” to “What do I truly want for my next 20, 30, or 40 years?”
Frequently Asked Questions About Therapy for Relationship Decisions
FAQs
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No. As a couples therapist for the past 11 years, I have helped thousands of people reconnect with their partners and have an even better relationship than ever before. Whether you want tools to strengthen your relationship or if you are determining whether or not you are compatible for a healthy relationship long-term, I am here to help. Learn more.
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I have created what I call “The 4 Pillars of Comptability”. It’s a helpful tool to explore and identify the areas where you are most compatible together and what areas could use some work. In going through this exercise, we can build on your strengths as well as improve the areas that aren’t so great right now. Learn more.
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You can download it here. You’ll be added to my email list as well. No worries…I don’t send daily emails flooding your inbox. You can expect an email once a month with helpful tips for healthy relationships. You’re also welcome to opt out at anytime. Learn more.